Marriage Confidental by Pamela Haag: A Book Review
I agreed to review this book after reading an interview where Pamela Haag, author of “Marriage Confidential: Love in the Post-Romantic Era,” explains her views on feminism and marriage. I was excited to read it because I thought that it would finally look at the very personal side of marriage in a way that explored… [Continue Reading]
Planet of the Naps
The day I woke up with nappy hair, my husband punched me in the face, jumped out of our second story bedroom window and immediately started fucking the white woman next door. I would not have known what happened but for the swinging blinds beating against the windowpane and his warm imprint lingering in my… [Continue Reading]
Rest in Peace, Ms. Whitney Houston
There are so many things I want to say about Ms. Houston but the words are having trouble finding my mouth. I was hoping that she would be able to kick the butts of her demons and come out on top again. I hoped that the years of stress, sadness, anger, loneliness, and heartache would… [Continue Reading]
Moving from Adversity to Global Action
What do you do when your life or the life of some one you love is threatened by an unknown ailment? For most of us, we head to a doctor or an emergency room. We call on the knowledge of specialist and we have faith that they will see us through. And as scary as it may… [Continue Reading]
On seeing color
I’ve been in an interracial relationship since 1997. It’s been a long time. In the beginning, I was adamant that I did not see color- that I was colorblind and that love is colorblind. In fact, when were were both attending college, I wrote an article for the campus newspaper bashing the student population for… [Continue Reading]
From the Archives

Happy Spring
by Adiaha Ruane Spring is a joyous occasion. I enjoy the coming of warm weather, the feeling of regeneration and rejuvenation. I usually get a boost of energy and a swirl of ideas and for me this feels like the new year. I generally start diets and new habits around this time of year and Read the full article →
Dating Abuse and how you can help
This post was written by my friend and former colleague, Erika Miller who is a part of an amazing project that needs your help. I wanted to share this with MOM OF HUE as dating violence is too common within our community. In almost ten years as a Relationship Abuse Prevention Program (RAPP) Social Worker Read the full article →

Creative Sundays: Washed Away
I am avoiding his eyes, tapping my fingers beside my brown tea cup to the beat of the rain. The rain has collected in our gutter and is pouring down our bay window, blurring the view outside. I can barely make out the green grass on our manicured front lawn… or the apple tree that Read the full article →

My life changed in a teen chat room
My teen love story – over a number of posts I will be sharing my first love story. As you read over the coming posts, you will understand that I had to purge the past. I must say it has helped me heal some. Only child, never knew my dad. My mom and I were Read the full article →
Let’s talk Dora, Barbie and the dolls of color!
Not only is it rare to get a good role model but it is tougher to get one of color. Even in reality the inspiration for a female of color to emulate is not an easy find. Many of those of color that have the power to influence with their demeanor also end up trying to mainstream so badly that you can barely tell they are of color as they blend in.

Slow it Down Saturday: Choosing a natural birth with a midwife
“Suspended between worlds…half in and half out.” For months now, I have been scared. I don’t know what I’m doing. I’m not even sure what I’m supposed to be doing and with those feelings comes a sense of guilt and a subtle panic, like I am mad at myself as to why I didn’t have Read the full article →

Save money at the gas station.
While gas prices have come down, keeping any and every cost down is important in today’s tough economic times. My husband mentioned to me that when I make fast starts or sudden stops I’m using more gas. I wanted to learn more about this “notion” of his and found these great tips on saving money Read the full article →

Marriage Confidental by Pamela Haag: A Book Review
I agreed to review this book after reading an interview where Pamela Haag, author of “Marriage Confidential: Love in the Post-Romantic Era,” explains her views on feminism and marriage. I was excited to read it because I thought that it would finally look at the very personal side of marriage in a way that explored Read the full article →




